Our 10-year journey with MSC

Our 10-year journey with MSC

We were very disappointed when Booking.com informed us that the property owner had cancelled our holiday accommodation for our seaside holiday. We struggled to find accommodation that was affordable and met our needs. Still disappointed, Charl got an email from MSC with a favourable and tempting offer. We have sailed with MSC several times over the last ten years.

Our history with MSC

Vacations must meet many different goals and needs. Years ago, we were a blended family with two teenagers and a small boy. A fun holiday was, therefore, crucial to building new family memories. At that time, MSC Cruises tried out South Africa as a destination, and we decided to give them a try.

MSC is a family business with a focus on families. Kids sail free, and with three children, it made quite a big difference. The first time, we sailed from Durban to Mozambique and visited an island.

MSC was a winning recipe for us. Everyone could eat what and as much as they wanted. The teenagers couldn’t believe their luck with Italian pizzas and hamburgers available 18 hours a day, and I could try new dishes. At night, the sailing boat lulls you into a deep sleep. Charl’s favourite is relaxing in the jacuzzi early in the morning while most passengers still sleep.

The MSC kids club provides entertainment and a babysitting service for the children. Zander enjoyed the friends and activities and couldn’t wait for the opening time in the morning. The teenagers enjoyed the Bingo nights and the football on the top deck.

Many destinations, languages, and cultures

The ship sails to different destinations, and the best thing is to see a new place early in the morning without worrying about arrangements. We have seen various countries in Africa, Europe, and South America in this way. English is a language on all the ships, but on each cruise, they speak the language of the destinations. During our recent European cruise, the languages spoken included Italian, French, German, Spanish and Portuguese.

Many South Africans work on the MSC ships.

People from Africa like to work on the MSC ships. During our last holiday, we heard the most Afrikaans in a long time. The first MSC ships that sailed after the Covid period were in the southern hemisphere’s summer. Many South Africans have accepted contracts for the European summer season after this season. However, I could hear that after nine months at sea, the staff members missed home.

Fortunately, the MSC Kids Club always consisted of South African staff members. Consequently, Zander always had a young lady who looked after him and spoke to him in English or Afrikaans. We were on a sailing holiday during his 5th birthday, and MSC spoiled him with a birthday cake and an MSC present.

Special experiences

Every holiday and destination has its own unique and memorable experiences. Our cruise during the 2015 Christmas holiday will always stay with me. On Christmas Day, we anchored at an island near Mozambique, and the locals warmly greeted the tourists with African songs and dances.

It was hot, and tourists and islanders were swimming in the sea. We had diving goggles and enjoyed looking at fish and starfish in the shallow water. Island boys, Zander’s age played with him, and even though they couldn’t understand each other’s language, they got along well.

I gave them my diving goggles to use. The reaction and expression on their little faces when they saw sea life for the first time through diving goggles were so touching. I remember it as a holy and simple Christmas.

The 2022 holiday

My favourite visit was to Lisbon, Portugal. I had never been to Portugal and realized for the first time that Lisbon lies along a river that flows into the Atlantic Ocean. We noticed thousands of jellyfish and the most beautiful sea turtle in the estuary.

We took one of the old-fashioned trams and admired beautiful buildings decorated with tiles in Lisbon. We enjoyed traditional custard tarts, “Pasteis de Nata”, at the Time Out Market.

I share the past holiday’s pictures in the video below

Over the last ten years, MSC has provided us with fantastic opportunities to see places, enjoy cultural experiences and build family memories.

Kind regards

Emsia

Colourful landscapes of Provence

Colourful landscapes of Provence

All of us were looking forward to the summer holidays. However, our needs and expectations differed. I wanted to see places and experience people and their traditions. After a busy year, Charl needed to rest and relax, and Zander had teenage needs.

Provence, in the south, of France, was high on my “bucket list”. The area is known for its sunny weather, colourful countryside, fresh farm produce and Roman ruins. Charl agreed to Provence on the condition that we stay somewhere by the sea to swim, sleep, and relax afterwards. With all the strikes at the airports, we travelled by car.

In this letter, I share more about our Provence experience. In my following letter, I will share more about the “relaxing part of the holiday”, which took an interesting turn.

Nougat from Montélimar

Our first stop was Montélimar, famous for its Nougat. The delicacy is made mainly of egg whites, lavender honey, vanilla and large amounts of almonds and pistachio nuts. We visited the oldest nougat manufacturer and museum. They own beehives next to the lavender fields and almond groves. As in the old days, the Nougat is still mainly made by hand.

Montélimar’s local market, with many fresh and lavender-inspired, products was an experience.

The old city of Avignon

When we drove into Avignon, we realized we had a problem. We were unaware of the art festival during the week of our visit. Temperatures were over 40 degrees, and we couldn’t find parking anywhere. It felt like Oudtshoorn’s KKNK festival in South Africa. We drove to our hotel on the outskirts of town for some time to think but couldn’t check in yet.

The hotel offered much-needed air conditioning, a swimming pool, a foosball, and a snooker table. I wanted to see the old city, but the men indicated no interest. Fortunately, they are almost always hungry, and the thought of food at the festival was good enough motivation for them to get on the city bus with me.

Lavender fields of the Lourmarin region

Of everything in Provence, I most wanted to see the purple-blue lavender fields of the Lourmarin region. The old hill town of Gordes, with views over the valleys, greeted us first. Further down the valley, the 12th-century monastery, surrounded by lavender, took my breath away. After we visited their gift shop, we walked around in a lavender scent.

From here, we drove through lavender fields to the village of Roussillon. The place is known for its red cliffs formed by the iron-rich colour pigment in the soil. The red, yellow, and brown shades formed a striking contrast with the lush green pine trees and were used to colour the town’s buildings.

A promise of ice cream in Lourmarin encouraged the men to travel even further. The lavender-flavoured ice cream was a first for me but surprisingly delicious. The shops offered French apricot-and-lavender jam, lavender syrup, and lavender shortbread. In the square, the French enjoyed the typical European summer lunch of melon wrapped in Parma Ham.

Van Gogh’s village of Arles

The Dutch Vincent van Gogh lived in Arles for a year in 1888 in search of the sun’s warmth. The tourism office has a walking route, enabling tourists to compare certain places in Arles with Van Gogh’s works of art.

We visited the street cafe in one of his famous paintings and the mental hospital where he lived in his last days. They maintain the garden to still look like his painting.

One of his most famous paintings is Starry Night which he painted along the Rhône River close to where we stayed. As I walked through the streets, I recalled the words of the song titled Vincent in my mind:

Starry, starry night
Paint your palette blue and grey
Look out on a summer's day
With eyes that know the darkness in my soul
Now, I understand what you tried to say to me
And how you suffered for your sanity
And how you tried to set them free
They would not listen, they did not know how
Perhaps they'll listen now

Bastille Day in Marseille

Marseille left us with colourful memories. In the town centre is the old harbour with markets and street cafes. From the old port, we drove by bus along the coast to swim in the Mediterranean Sea. Charl and Zander waited a week for this experience. However, the beautiful beaches and turquoise water were worth the wait.

We experienced Bastille Day in Marseille. After the parades by the French military and other protection forces, people picnicked in the old harbour while waiting for the fireworks. The fireworks were launched from platforms in the sea and synchronized with beautiful music. It illuminated the beautiful stone walls of the old harbour and immortalized moments in my memory.

I share my photos in the video below.

Kind regards

Emsia

We are each other’s family abroad

We are each other’s family abroad

I love visitors. It creates enjoyable energy in our home and allows me to spoil people close to my heart. In South Africa, our annual family get-together was my highlight. Throughout the year, I gathered outing ideas and planned the meals and activities well in advance.

I turned a deaf ear when Charl rebelled against the extra mattresses and bedding I had loaded on the ship with our move to Switzerland. Even though our apartment was small, I wanted to ensure enough beds for everyone who wanted to visit.

My children

Fortunately, six months after our move, my children visited in December 2019. The time together was cheerful.

The first snow was a memorable event; we caught the flakes on our tongues like children. We shared the Swiss tradition of fondue and baked pancakes as we traditionally celebrate rainy days in South Africa.

After their visit, I gathered Swiss outings and meal ideas but had no opportunity to share them. Beautiful scenery, historic building or new experience is more fun if you share them with someone else!

Soulmates

My joy was great when Vanessa informed me about her visit to Zurich for a conference. I recalled various moments during our friendship. We shared many laughs and chats as young women in our office 20 years ago. 

Vanessa and I live in Europe with our hearts and family still in South Africa. Our reasons for the situation are broadly the same. Corporate jobs for our generation in South Africa are dwindling. We understand and have compassion for each other’s lifestyle adjustments.

Due to Covid, she had to spend her first year in Amsterdam alone in an apartment. These were her circumstances when she had to set up a new department at a large firm. I gained a new respect for her bravery.

A European heatwave arrived with Vanessa. Without any air conditioning in Switzerland, everyone suffered. After one attempt to go out, we decided to keep our apartment as dark as possible and shared our joys and challenges over a glass of cold white wine at home.

Welgemoed friends

Personal and professional reasons brought Martin and Marna to Europe. Their daughter Danielle completed her music studies in Belgium and the Netherlands. The performance for her master’s degree was in the Zuid Afrika house in Amsterdam. It consisted of South African wine, food, music, and poetry.

After the concert, Martin had to be in Zurich for work, allowing me and Marna to enjoy a wonderful time together. We walked on the promenade and ate Flammeküche while watching the swans in the lake.

We also visited the House of Lindt in Schokolandeplatz. It was the ideal place for Marna to get gifts for her family at home. Our visit ended with a visit to Switzerland’s Rose City, Rapperswil. We sailed the entire length of the lake back on a boat and watched everyone play in the water.

Before their European visit, Martin received an unexpected job offer from Dubai. As a result, they had to shorten their stay. We enjoyed our last meal together next to the lake. During dinner, a storm arose, and on the way to the car, the floodgates of heaven opened. We were soaking wet. The receptionist at their hotel reception could not suppress his laughter when he saw them!

Our friends are increasingly moving overseas

Our friends are increasingly moving overseas. Everyone needs to adapt to a new country, culture, and circumstances while longing and praying for family and friends at home. Discovering and exploring are exciting. However, loneliness and longing for loved ones are sometimes difficult. We agreed to be each other’s family abroad.

I greet you with the words from ʼn Antjie Krog’s poem that Danielle also used in her concert. Roughly translated into English, it says:

And even if you are not with me
I am proof of our commitment
Like flowers blooming in the twilight
I hear you tonight like a far-off train.

Kind regards

Emsia

Greece shared her beauty with us

Greece shared her beauty with us

I often marvel at the variety of beauty that the earth offers us. Beauty comes in different forms. Our senses, heart and emotions help us experience beauty. Each of us lives in a place offering a whole package of environment, people, food, and experiences. Sometimes, however, we need to experience different places to appreciate the beauty of our home.

During our 2021 summer holiday, we looked forward to experiencing South Africa’s beauty again with our senses and hearts. Due to Covid restrictions, the time was unfortunately not yet right, and the Greek islands had to make up. The sun, sea, landscape, people, food, and experiences were like soul food and felt like South Africa.

Swiss feedback about South African beauty

The Swiss woman who helped us at the Covid test centre with our PCR tests immediately recognized my South African accent. With a smile, she told us that their South African holiday at the end of 2019 was their most enjoyable holiday ever. They cannot wait to go back and experience more beauty.

Naxos

Upon our arrival in Mykonos, we immediately boarded one of the large ferry boats to sail to Naxos.

Our accommodation was right next to the beach. During early morning coffee, we watched the town wake up. The roads were full of scooters. We were amazed at how the Greeks managed to talk or text on their cell phones. They even had intense conversations with hand gestures on the scooters. One Grandma and her grandchild on a quad bike delivered fresh tomatoes and melons every morning.

We discovered a stunning restaurant and ate all our dinners there. The friendly interactions, beautiful Greek music and sunset views were medicine for the soul. I tried all the traditional Greek dishes, and we ate tzatziki with our bread every night. Zander caught up with his meat intake. The owner made jokes with Zander and spoiled him with a bowl of ice cream on our last night.

We had an interesting chat with the facility manager at our residence. He lived in England for 23 years and returned to Greece 5 years ago. His remark was,

“In England, I learned to speak English and earned good money but lived little. Now I enjoy life again but sometimes lie awake about money”.

Mykonos

Mykonos was a different experience than Naxos, and we learned a few new things. There are a lot of tourists, and everything is just as expensive as in Switzerland. It made sense when we realized Mykonos is the party island of the rich.

We lived close to Paradise Beach, high up on a hill. We could see and hear the parties on the beach. Private yachts were visible everywhere, and private jets arrived in the early morning.

At most beaches in Mykonos, nudism is acceptable. Zander, who is at a sensitive age, did not know where to look.

Covid impact

The Greek government announced new Covid restrictions in Mykonos two days before our return. The new rules prohibited music at restaurants and places of entertainment and introduced a curfew. The sudden silence was strange.

Our holiday was a memorable experience. I share the visual version of our holiday.

We eventually had the privilege of experiencing a South African summer and Christmas in December 2021!

Kind regards

Emsia

Circus’ place in the entertainment arena

Circus’ place in the entertainment arena

Circuses originated as a form of entertainment long before the era of movies, television, and social media. The circus arena was a place of exotic mysticism. However, I wondered about the future of the circus in a period filled with many forms of entertainment. We attended the Knie Circus in Zurich twice in one month!

Knie Circus is a family business

Friedrich Knie, a medical student, founded the Knie Circus in 1803 after falling in love with a horse rider. It is a family business and one of the oldest and most prominent European circus groups. Nowadays, members of the 7th generation manage the family business, and their children (the 8th generation) already perform in the arena. I understand the challenges of family businesses and have a lot of respect for the Knie family.

My circus experience over time

I was in a circus as a child when Boswell Wilkie Circus visited our small mining town, Sishen, in South Africa. I was excited but scared of the clowns, and the acrobats stressed me out. It was consequently an experience with mixed feelings. I was curious to see what a contemporary circus has to offer.

In essence, the building blocks of a circus have remained the same over time with acrobatic stunts, slapstick comedy and animals. Circuses have provoked many negative comments regarding the cruel and unfair way they treated animals in the past. The Knie Circus use only horses and ponies but handles the animals incredibly respectfully inside and outside the circus tent.

There were, as then, two clowns who provided continuity. Fortunately, they had no face paint! Their funny pun in German was a bit lost on us, but we had a good laugh with the other people.

Technology in the circus

They used technology cleverly in the shows for a visual spectacle. The Extreme Light Dance Crew created an enjoyable display of light, music, and dance with LED costumes. The group consists of members from Ukraine and Russia despite the war between their home countries.

The quick acrobatic movements on a trampoline and a LED-lit wall were entertaining. Illuminated drones in the circus tent created an incredible visual effect.

Pipistrello

Every year I see the Pipistrello circus tent pitched at our Zumikon’s town square. Their circus wagons stand on the town square, and the crew eat together at long wooden tables. This circus group moves between towns during the warmer months.

They are a co-op circus and organize projects with schools, remedial educational institutions, and holiday organizers. Together with the Pipistrello team, the participants set up the circus tent, developed a circus show with their ideas and presented it at the end of the week.

Circus is a tradition

A friend, who grew up ʼn Switzerland, told me they attend the opening show of the Knie Circus every year. The circus tent was on a square beside the lake for a month. On weekends there were up to three performances per day. The circus tours this way through the cities and larger towns in Switzerland.

The Hirslanden group bought all the tickets for several shows in Switzerland as a thank-you gift to employees. It provided many people and their families with enjoyable entertainment and escape. That’s why we’ve been to the circus twice during May.

The place of the circus in the entertainment arena

All the excited kids’ faces and the smell of popcorn brought the childlike excitement back to me. I enjoyed every moment of the show. Sometimes I had a good laugh, but other times gasped for breath. The quad bike that made a backflip high in the arena tested my nerves. The trick is unique in the world.

Sometimes our family feels like a circus. I will keep the clowns’ identities secret for privacy reasons. However, we all do regular balancing tricks. A circus, however, is a team of people who work together like a well-oiled machine. The team members have specific skills and roles on stage. However, they also help with the usual household chores backstage.

I now understand that the circus is a tradition that connects generations but adapts to the times. I believe it still has a place as entertainment in the future, provided it can continue to innovate.

Regards

Emsia

Team SA celebrated cultural diversity

Team SA celebrated cultural diversity

At the international school, we form part of a community representative of families from 55 countries. During an International Festival hosted by the school, we learned more about their food, clothing, and culture. The questions were “What aspects of our South African food and culture do we share with others? Where and how do we get the right products?” 

ICS Zurich International Festival

The festival kicked off with a parade. I marvelled at the colourful traditional clothes. After the parade, it was time to taste dishes from over the world. As we passed each stall, the most delicious flavours filled the air, and native language conversations created an upbeat atmosphere. There were games and activities for the children, and learners with musical talents provided entertainment.

Meeting other South Africans

We are aware of four South African families and three SA teachers at the school. As SA mothers, we started our regular meetings for the first time at the end of 2021. The international festival was an opportunity to work together on something close to our hearts. In addition, we could meet the other members of the SA families. 

Team South Africa

Without previous experience, we decided to keep it simple at first with boerewors rolls, vanilla cupcakes, and South African sweets. Karin obtained the necessary sweets, chutney, and decorations during their visit to SA in April. Melanie was aware of a Swiss butcher who could make real South African boerewors for us. I, inspired by my son Jacques’ Cinnamon Club, baked the cupcakes.

Our stall’s location was between Italy and Australia. We decorated it nicely with flags, wooden African animals and proteas made of wire. Our cupcakes and sweets attracted the kids, and various people tried our boerewors rolls. It was the Ms Balls chutney that caught the attention of potential customers. Charl was responsible for the braai, and the kids were excellent with the sales.

We could only smile at their marketing and negotiation techniques.

Language challenges

At Zander’s school, English is the first language, and everyone must also learn to speak German as a second language. Various children, like Zander, speak other languages at home. 

When in grades 6 to 8, they must also take French or Spanish as a third language. Zander chose Spanish. In a previous letter, I shared more about my own language challenges.

They recently had to present a Spanish cooking program in a video for an assessment. Zander and his teammate from India decided to bake Spanish lemon cupcakes called Magdalenas. I was relieved that my role was behind the camera!

They started by listing the ingredients in Spanish. However, it was somewhat funny that the packaging was in German, French and Italian. Without previous baking experience, they struggled to explain the instructions in Spanish whilst also having challenges with the demonstration. I tried to advise from behind the camera. However, I sometimes switched to Afrikaans if I could not find the English words fast enough. I felt sorry for the Indian child! Laughter was our best common language.

My lessons on diversity

As a parent at an international school, I learned that a community could consist of various cultures. For a healthy and thriving diverse community, mutual respect, and willingness to embrace differences are critical. Collaboration is key. Understanding each other is sometimes a challenge. However, you must learn to be patient and show compassion for yourself and others!

Regards

Emsia

Tuscan villas and Chianti wines

Tuscan villas and Chianti wines

Tuscany rolling hills, medieval villages and Chianti wines have always been on our bucket list. The warm Italian hospitality, good food, and picturesque landscapes contributed to lasting memories.

We visited Tuscany, located between Florence and Rome, by rental car. I shared more about our visit to Milan, Florence, and Rome in my previous letter.

Pisa

Our first stop in Tuscany was Pisa, and our accommodation was in the small town of Pugnano. I fell in love with the old Italian villa that originated in the 16th century as a farmhouse.

The rooms are very spacious, and the decor is genuinely Italian. There are two wedding reception halls with wooden floors, giant murals, and beautiful crystal chandeliers.

We enjoyed a bottle of Chianti wine in the villa’s garden as we watched the last golden rays of the sun disappear over the Tuscan vineyards. Breakfast consisted of sweet Italian tarts and cakes displayed on a table with a pure white tablecloth.

Chianti Wine Region

The Chianti wine region is home to Italy’s best-known wines. Canola fields provided colour between the carefully tended rows of vineyards and olive groves. In summer, sunflowers and grains take over the role.

Along the road are wine cellars to taste wine and olive oil. We stopped in the village of Greve de Chianti. Boutique shops, workshops and restaurants surround the town square.

The region is known for its Agriturismo, which offers the opportunity to stay on one of the working farms. We spent the night on a farm near Panzano, where they prepared meals with their local produce.

In Panzano, we had lunch under the beautiful, purple-coloured wisteria with the Tuscan countryside as our view.

San Gimignano

The medieval villages built on the hills are characteristic of the Tuscan area. San Gimignano takes you back with its fascinating medieval architecture and towers.

The drive to San Gimignano tested our marriage. The area is hilly, and the many winding paths are very narrow. After my numerous map misinterpretations, Charl got frustrated with finding ways to turn around!

The destination was worth it! We enjoyed gelato with the other tourists on the steps of the old well in the town square.

Saturnia hot springs

From the Chianti region, we drove south through the Val d’Orcia area. The landscapes are picture-perfect, with rolling hills and distinctive cypress trees.

Pictures of Cascate del Mulino, of Saturnia, enticed me. The milky blue natural hot springs at different levels are amazing. The water is 37 degrees and mineral-rich with healing properties.

We stayed in Manciano and slept peacefully. It was a relaxing way to conclude our Tuscany trip.

Cari saluti

Emsia

Italy preserves its heritage for the future

Italy preserves its heritage for the future

We can understand many of the values and priorities of civilizations if we look at their architecture and art. Our visit to Milan, Florence, and Rome renewed my appreciation for the Italians’ efforts to preserve culture and heritage.

Milan, the city of fashion and design

Milan is known as the city of fashion and design. However, the city impressed me with its efforts to preserve its heritage and innovate with future-oriented architectural designs.

The Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II, a luxury shopping centre, took my breath away. It is the most beautiful and oldest shopping mall in Italy, with its impressive glass dome and handmade detail against the walls. It houses brands such as Armani, Prada, and Versace, whose headquarters are also in Milan.

I loved the detail and symmetry in the architecture of Milan Cathedral. Similarly, the modern and futuristic Porta Nuova area excited me. There are, among others, the Bosco Verticale luxury apartment blocks with trees and plants. They demonstrate that a building can be a home for trees, birds, insects, and humans. 

The architecture of the future will hopefully include similar environmentally friendly designs.

Florence, the city of art

The high-speed train to Florence at 300 km/h was quite an experience. Florence is considered the Renaissance birthplace. The whole city, with art and architecture by artists like Leonardo Da Vinci and Michelangelo, felt like a work of art to me. Our visit was during Easter weekend with masses of tourists, but everyone’s excitement and positive energy were welcome.

The Cathedral of Santa Maria del Fiore is impressive. It has distinctive Renaissance architectural features of symmetry, domes, columns, pillars, and triangular fronts used repetitively. The cathedral’s dome is still an engineering marvel and impacted other religious buildings.
We enjoyed the many street artists in Florence. The city radiates creative energy and attracts different kinds of artists from all over the world.

Our visit to the central market in Florence, with its many homemade, local, and fresh products, was a highlight.

In Florence, we rented a hybrid car to Tuscany, the region between Florence and Rome. However, I will tell you more about our Tuscany experience in my following letter.

Rome, the Eternal City

In Rome, you walk with reverence and respect since Rome had its origins in 753 B.C. The impact of the Roman Empire is still visible in Western art, architecture, technology, literature, language, and law.

Since I visited Rome in 1995, archaeologists have made many historical discoveries. The area around the Colosseum looks very different, with many more excavations. The Colosseum finished in 80 A.C., is the largest ancient amphitheatre ever built. It could handle 80,000 spectators who watched gladiatorial competitions and public spectacles.

The Vatican is an independent state with its beautiful St. Peter’s Basilica. During our visit, the Vatican City prepared for a Holy Mass on Sunday, 24 April, led by Pope Francis.

The queues were too long to visit the Pope’s chapel, namely Sistine Chapel. The chapel’s paintings took Michelangelo five years to complete. For those people who are too impatient for long queues, I can recommend the Netflix movie, The Two Popes. It is very informative and contains beautiful footage from the Vatican City and Sistine Chapel.

Preservation of culture and heritage

The restoration and preservation of the cultural treasures place significant responsibility on the leaders of Rome. However, tourism also creates jobs and income. We also made our tourism contributions in exchange for gelato ice cream and pizza. These Italian treats had to serve as encouragement for tired bodies and sore feet.

Our Italian visit was our way of celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary. We are thankful our life paths have crossed and for the privilege of being able to walk many foreign paths together.

Cari saluti

Emsia

Signs of a future without masks

Signs of a future without masks

In Europe, Spring has arrived in all her glory. While Spring showed off her beautiful outfits, Winter made an unexpected comeback. Overnight, temperatures dropped from 20 to -6 degrees. Spring’s multi-coloured display picked up some damage. Luckily it looks like it’s just temporary, and she’s shaking her tail feathers for an excellent seasonal show.

Unexpected Covid-winter during our new season in Switzerland

Similarly, Covid unexpectedly arrived a few months after the start of our new season in Switzerland. We had many plans for new friendships and experiences during our planned three years in Switzerland. Let go and let God has acquired a new meaning for us. My friend challenged me with a good question.

“What change has the new season in Switzerland brought to you, Emsia?”

We had many lifestyle changes in Switzerland. However, I am sincerely grateful for the insight the Covid winter has brought me.

Covid Insight

All my life, I have been a person who values action. I was always planning or doing something. A life of action was my vehicle for living my values and purpose. My name means “to be of service”.

After a career of 27 years in South Africa, I quickly updated and sent out my CV here in Switzerland and started talking to contacts. In line with my perspective, I needed a job opportunity to make a difference.

Covid, especially in another country, has significantly limited my employment opportunities. However, the circumstances showed me that I had to change the word “doing” to the word “being”. Instead of doing things for others, I had to learn to be there for them.

It had to start with my own family, of course. I had to learn to be more present, listen, and observe. I am a natural planner and had to get to know the place and value of spontaneity and intuition. Combining creativity with these two helped me live lighter and enjoy life more. However, change is a process, and I sometimes fall back into my old familiar ways.

Spring after the Covid winter

Fortunately, I can hold on to the certainty that seasons will change. The Covid season is changing worldwide. Here in Switzerland, there are no more Covid measures. I almost feel guilty for being on the train without a mask. It’s so awesome to see people’s faces again and share a smile.

For the first time in a long time, Zander can go on school outings and play sports against other schools. It creates excitement and new experiences.

Parents can also re-enter the school grounds and meet each other. Everyone is excited about the annual International Festival happening again. During the event, families from all over the world will celebrate diversity and culture. There will be 24 stalls with food prepared by the parents of the respective countries.

We are three South African mothers working together to ensure that South Africa also has representation. A new mom from Ukraine will do the same for her country with the help of other moms.

The new normal

As we adjust to a new normal and are excited about the new opportunities and experiences, I am very aware of the vital lessons I have learned during the Covid winter in a new country.

We plan to stay in Switzerland for a few more years. It is more time to focus on being rather than doing.

Enjoy the new season, the new normal and Easter weekend.

regards

Emsia

When the familiar changes forever

When the familiar changes forever

During certain life events, the familiar changes forever. An entire Ukraine nation experiences war. As a result, disrupted and frightened refugees have to flee to European countries. They must apply for residence permits in foreign languages and rely on generosity for their basic needs, such as accommodation, food, and employment opportunities.

Refugees from Ukraine arriving in Switzerland

My heart goes out to these refugees when I read about their trauma. It’s so destructive and unfair. There is so much loss in many ways. Every day, trains full of traumatised people arrive at Zurich’s train station.

It is heart-warming to see how many people in Switzerland are trying to help and support the refugees. People make sandwiches so that the refugees have something to eat when they get off the trains. Points exist where people can hand in food, clothing, and items for personal care for distribution.

Local authorities are seeking accommodation and communicating available places on refugee websites. Swiss residents donate furniture, household items and available time to furnish living spaces.

Traumatic and life-changing events

Many people I care about are currently going through traumatic and life-changing events. However, for each of them, it is something different. The unexpectedness, impact, and uncertainty are the common denominators. It forces them to revisit their future dreams.

These moments, when the familiar changes forever, happen to us all. It usually comes at the least expected time, and in a surprising way. Sometimes the fear of such a moment strikes me at two o’clock at night. The most disturbing situations play out in my mind as if it is a contingency plan exercise that should help me be more prepared. However, it only steals my rest, peace, and joy.

I feel vulnerable in a foreign country far from my sons, family, and friends. Flight restrictions caused by Covid contributed significantly.

Truths help me in times of fear and anxiety

I had to work hard on myself and jotted down some truths to hold on to in times of fear and anxiety.

Life-changing events are part of life. 

We cannot prepare for these events because the nature and timing are usually unexpected. Life is in balance. Sometimes we experience joy, but other times we go through painful growth and disruption.

I have a Creator with a bigger plan for my life. 

Looking back on my life, I can see the evidence of this. In confusing and uncertain times, I experienced the nearness of my Creator more than ever. My intuition, for example, was strong, and people and opportunities from strange places crossed my path. I also experienced a lot of love and caring.

The right people come our way at the right time. 

They come with the necessary knowledge, help, advice, or compassion we need. These people obey their commands and act when it is time. We form part of a larger whole and must share our knowledge and help with love. It is, however, important to also receive the effort and time of others gracefully.

We have more courage, perseverance, and problem-solving skills than we realise. 

When I reflect on myself and the people close to my heart’s times of crisis, I am just amazed. Times of crisis allow us to discover underdeveloped aspects of ourselves.

I choose my focus. 

Fear and anxiety over all the what-if questions rob me of energy, peace, and joy. I have control over my thinking and should choose where I focus it. My thoughts have an impact on my emotions and my actions. My mind is sometimes like a runaway horse that I struggle to keep in check, and I must work hard to focus my mind.

I need to have compassion for myself.

Fear and anxiety are normal human emotions.

regards

Emsia