Metaphors are powerful and can serve as valuable tools when we attempt to articulate intricate ideas for which we do not have the right words. When we incorporate metaphors into conversations or writing, they stimulate the imagination and facilitate the communication of emotions and impressions. Using metaphors, we can present familiar concepts in fresh, vibrant perspectives, subtly reshaping cognitive frameworks.

Recently, I participated in an exercise that challenged us to narrate significant aspects of our life journeys using symbols and metaphors. We were limited to five metaphors. It was a challenging task that forced me to think differently.

I chose the following five metaphors to represent aspects of my life story.

Metaphor 1 – Camel thorn pod

The first symbol I selected is the pod of a camel thorn tree. My roots trace back to Kathu in the Kalahari, nestled within a Camel Thorn Forest. The pod symbolises the security and nurturing environment I found in my parents’ home and community during my formative years. Our lifestyle was humble, grounded in a close connection to the earth.

The pod also represents versatility. Apart from nurturing new saplings, we harvested them for animal feed and as fuel for fires. Life in the Kalahari cultivated our problem-solving abilities and fostered a culture of innovation. Our parents instilled a strong work ethic and expected us to contribute to household chores. As a result, we have mastered several basic skills that have stayed with us throughout our lives.

Metaphor 2 – Calculator

The calculator symbolises the calculated way I approached my young adult life. I harboured specific notions about the trajectory of my life, particularly as a woman, envisioning how my career, marriage, and family would harmonise. Similarly to the processing by a calculator, I anticipated automatic outcomes to these aspects of my life.

Furthermore, the calculator embodies my career path within the financial sector. I worked at an auditing and accounting firm, assisting organisations in ensuring their financial statements reflect their financial health. However, I soon realised that while I thrived in the business world, my satisfaction stemmed from interactions with clients and colleagues rather than the tasks themselves. The outcomes in my profession deviated significantly from my initial expectations. The situation in my marriage was similar.

Metaphor 3 – Watering can

Gardening has always been a therapeutic outlet for me, offering valuable lessons. Among them, I have observed how a struggling plant in one part of my garden can thrive in a different environment with nourishment and ample water. This metaphor resonated deeply with me. Through tending to my garden, I have come to understand that my life’s purpose resembles that of a watering can. It is an instrument in the hands of God entrusted with nurturing others’ growth with love and care.

My journey began with an investment in my personal development through a Life Coaching course. The newfound knowledge and insight equipped me to help facilitate growth in other people. Initially, my focus turned to my children. Subsequently, after discussing my perspective with my boss, he facilitated a transition in my role at work. In my new role, I could actively contribute to the personal development of others. This shift brought me immense personal fulfilment.

Metaphor 4 – Pen

I discovered the enjoyment and value of writing early in my life. Writing is a valuable way to deal with the emotions that threaten to overwhelm me. It helps me make sense of what I feel. The paper or computer screen does not give advice. It listens without interruption and helps me gain perspective and answers. As we navigate life in Switzerland, my bi-weekly letters help me make sense of events, stay connected with people close to my heart, and preserve memories.

I realised that writing also allows me to impact other people’s lives with words. I plan to publish an eBook entitled Letters Home In the next few months. In it, I will explore the depths of our internal and external experiences and growth as a South African family living in a foreign country. I have weaved together the tapestry of our emotions, thoughts, and cultural encounters of our lives abroad.

Metaphor 5 – Clock

A clock serves as the perfect metaphor for our time spent in Switzerland. The environment epitomises structure and order, punctuality, and systems operating with Swiss precision. 

The initial fifty years of my life felt like a perpetual race against time. The situation has changed with our move to Switzerland. I received the one thing I had always yearned for — time. Focussing on my well-being and growth, I considered things that feed my heart and soul. I thought about ways to stay healthy and considered the knowledge and skills I wanted to expand. The process became a journey of self-discovery and intentional living.

The duration of our time in Switzerland is uncertain. It is a gift that could conclude abruptly at any moment and we see it as borrowed time.

The metaphor exercise helped me to think about my life story in pictures. Which items carry enough meaning as metaphors for you to summarise significant aspects of your life?

If a picture is worth a thousand words, a metaphor is worth a thousand pictures.

Regards

Emsia