Our summer holiday reminded me of just how essential vacations and weekend getaways are. As the year goes on, pressures and obligations increase, while our energy and joy steadily fade. More conversations seem to revolve around tasks to finish, challenges to tackle, and problems to solve. Vacations and short breaks are not just opportunities to relax; they are a vital part of maintaining a balanced life.

Strengthening relationships

Stepping away from work, household chores, and screens allows us to give each other our full attention once again. Without the rush of daily life, conversations flow more naturally and freely. In a relaxed setting, it becomes easier to open up, even about sensitive topics. These moments break the cycle of busy days and remind us why we chose each other as life partners in the first place.

We also get to notice how our children have grown, learn more about them, and share new adventures.

Visiting new places creates shared stories—little treasures we can recall later and laugh about. These experiences often reveal new sides of each other: a sense of adventure, a quick wit, or deep patience.

Fuel for Fresh Ideas

New places, foods, and people expand our perspectives and spark creativity. Our senses come alive, allowing us to view the world with fresh eyes. This openness helps us to be flexible and prepared for change.

Perhaps the greatest gift of a holiday is the people we encounter along the way. A spontaneous conversation with a stranger, a warm local welcome, or the generosity with which someone shares their culture—these moments can leave a lasting impression on our hearts.

Vacations and short getaways act like a button that takes our minds and bodies out of “autopilot,” reminding us that life holds more colours than those we see every day.

Perspective and Insight

Distance—both physical and mental—has a way of making our daily problems seem smaller. It helps us see challenges more clearly and often provides new insights. This space allows for valuable reflection: Am I where I want to be, doing what truly matters to me, content with the direction my life is taking? What do I hope for in the future?

Holidays remind us that life is full of possibilities. They encourage us to think beyond our usual boundaries, to grow, and to embrace change. I made my most significant life decisions while on vacation.

Here are some of my perspectives and insights from my holiday.

Ageing and Retirement

Our recent cruise to Iceland was perfect for those who, due to age or health, are less mobile. The ship smoothly glided through spectacular fjords, offering breathtaking views right from the deck. Most of the passengers were older, many of whom used walkers or mobility scooters, which were parked and recharged at night in the corridor outlets.

At the very front of the top deck was the Crow’s Nest, featuring large panoramic windows. From early morning, guests enjoyed the scenery while sipping steaming cups of coffee. The lounge also provided a selection of board games and puzzles, encouraging relaxed conversations and the formation of new friendships.

Charl and I participated in the interactive games, though we did not perform well in the music quizzes—we recognised the songs instantly but completely forgot their titles! However, quizzes on sports, science, and food boosted our confidence.

In the evenings, the ballroom dance floor came alive. I was captivated by the graceful movements of many older couples, who seemed perfectly in tune with each other. It was clear they had been dancing through life together for many years.

As we approach our retirement, this trip prompted reflection on what lies ahead. The people we met on board inspired us and left us excited about the future.

The Comfort of Language

On the cruises, announcements and conversations are often in the local language, which can make understanding them challenging. On our Holland America cruise, the Cruise Director made announcements in both Dutch and English. He was from Belgium and spoke Dutch with a Flemish accent that sounded almost identical to Afrikaans.

Being able to understand everything felt amazing. It opened doors for casual conversations with fellow passengers and allowed us to learn more about our destinations. Speaking and hearing a familiar language felt like wearing your most comfortable shoes while exploring somewhere new—you still experience the thrill of discovery without the discomfort of uncertainty at every turn.

Miracles and Faith

The Cruise Director shared several stories about the places we visited, but one story from the Norwegian fishing village of Ålesund particularly resonated with me.

In 1904, a massive fire swept through Ålesund, destroying 850 wooden buildings and leaving 10,000 people homeless. Remarkably, on a hill in the eastern district, one small wooden house remained untouched—Waldehuset, known as “the house that did not burn.”

According to local legend, the owner of the house, preacher Waldemar Anderssen, was visited by an angel on the day of the fire. The angel promised him that his house would not burn down, and Anderssen chose to stay inside throughout the blaze. When the flames finally died down, his home stood unharmed, surrounded by the ruins of the village.

Just three years later, they rebuilt the city in stunning Art Nouveau style, making it one of the most modern towns in the world at that time. Today, Waldehuset operates as a small museum and café, serving as a symbol of faith and grace. This coming year, I want to focus more on the miracles and grace in my own life.

In conclusion

If we think of life as a long hike, holidays and weekends away serve as resting spots. They provide us with water, shade, and a moment to pause and reflect. These breaks allow us to continue our journey with renewed energy and to enjoy the experience.

However, resting spots are more than just brief pauses; they remind us why we walk in the first place. Away from the rush of daily life, we can hear our thoughts and notice the small wonders along the path.

It makes the journey a rich tapestry of stories, people, and moments that nourish our souls. When we set out again, we carry a bit of that rest with us—a quiet strength that helps us take each step with gratitude.

Warm regards, 

Emsia